About Unicorn Finder

Where unicorns and couples find each other

Unicorn Finder is a community for single unicorns and the couples looking for them – a place to explore unique relationships openly, discreetly and without judgement.

Why we're here

Some connections don't fit a regular dating app

A couple looking for a third. A single who knows exactly what they want – or is only just starting to wonder. On most dating sites, there's nowhere obvious for either of you to start.

Unicorn Finder was made for exactly that. It's a space built around couples and singles who are open to something different, so you can be upfront about your interests, your boundaries and your desires from the very first message.

No awkward explanations. No guessing whether someone's open to it. Just like-minded people who already get it.

Whether you're after a one-off adventure, regular fun or a committed and trusting partnership, you set the pace – and you decide where it goes.

Who it's for

Curious or experienced, you're welcome here

  • Single unicorns

    You're single and open to joining a couple – for dating, fun or something more. Here, couples are actively looking for you.

  • Couples

    You're together and ready to explore with someone new. Join as a couple and say exactly what you're looking for.

  • The curious

    Never tried it but can't stop thinking about it? Browse, chat and learn from people who have – there's no pressure to rush.

What brings people here

Whatever you're into, say it on your profile

  • Threesomes
  • Throuple
  • Couple seeking
  • Soft swap
  • Full swap
  • Foursome
  • Parties
  • Social events
  • Clubs
  • Outdoor fun
  • Fetish & kink

What makes us different

Built around how couples and unicorns actually meet

  • Discreet by design

    You control what's on your profile, we never display members' personal details, and paid memberships show as a non-descript transaction on your bank statement.

    How we keep it private
  • Free to join, VIP optional

    Create your profile, browse members and get daily matches for free. Upgrade only if you want unlimited messaging and more.

    Compare memberships
  • A live, active community

    Your Activity Feed is the hub of the site – members share photos, videos, events and blogs, so you get a feel for people before you say hello.

    Meet the community
  • Playmates nearby and across the US

    Discover playmates nearby and across the country, and browse couples and singles state by state.

    Browse by location

What we stand for

The way we do things

  • Open-minded, never judgemental

    Every relationship here is a little different, and that's the point. Nobody needs to explain themselves.

  • Honest about what you want

    Be upfront about your interests and boundaries. It saves time, and helps you find people who want the same thing.

  • Respect, always

    Treat people the way you'd want to be treated, and take no for an answer. If anything ever feels off, our support team is here 24/7.

About Unicorn Finder

What is a unicorn?

A unicorn is a single person who joins an existing couple – for dating, a bit of fun or a longer-term relationship. The name comes from how hard they can be to find. That's what we're here to change.

Who can join Unicorn Finder?

Single people and couples who are open to exploring unique relationships. You don't need any experience – plenty of members are simply curious.

Is it free to join?

Yes. You can join free, build your profile, browse members and get daily matches. VIP is optional if you want unlimited messaging and more, and you can upgrade or cancel online at any time.

Is it discreet?

Absolutely. You control everything shown on your profile, we never display members' personal details, and we never share your information with third parties. A paid membership only ever shows on your bank statement as a discreet, non-descript transaction.

Where are members based?

Members are spread across the US, and you can browse couples and singles by state on our locations page.

Ready to find your unicorn – or your couple?

Join Unicorn Finder free and start meeting like-minded couples and singles today.

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